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Wysłany: Śro 8:47, 20 Kwi 2011
Temat postu: Help! My Child Lies - free story manners of Art
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Noel Swanson
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This article was posted aboard August 24, 2005
Childhood Lies
Unfortunately, even whereas adults hate lying, they often set up their kid to do just that. Here's a look at how:
Greg's mama just base out that Greg was throwing rocks at somebody:
"Hi Greg,
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, what have you been doing today?" [Why would I tell you if you don't know for sure?]
"Like what? I haven't been act anything", he says innocently and looked a morsel confused.
"Did you discard rocks at the current girl?" [Maybe I tin still get away with it]
"No", he responses incredulous that you would even infer him.
"Well Mavis says you did."
"It had to be some other kid." [Why would she deem a adjoin over me?]
"She sounded positive that it was you, Greg."
"She's mad, it wasn't me!"
First Mum tempts him to lie to wriggle out of it, and she corners him with the lie. It is showdown period. What will Mum do? Is she confident that Mavis is totally reliable? Or is there some shadow of doubt? Greg seems to be beautiful determined, what whether it was some other children? If she lets him off, she will have to apologise for doubting him. If she convicts him, it will be twice disciplines, an for lying and one for throwing stones.
Since most kids lie to linger out of trouble, it's up to you to promote truth and sincerity. Don't tempt them to differentiate extra lies. You have to make it beneficial because incriminating himself, instead of letting him off the anchor. Lay a basis of fact effective and honesty as your entire kin. This manner you can't lie either. Watch your children for honesty, and reward them while they are. Keep talking approximately how valuable honesty namely as well as a nice prestige. Show them that honesty is excellent and that it will be rewarded.
Then, when you do suspect your children of some delinquency, stay tranquility.
If you know for sure that he is guilty, don't tempt him to lie by inquiring him if he did it. Give him the details that you know and punish him.
You can too ask him to tell you the truth. Here is an instance that won't giver him the discretion to lie about it:
"Greg, Mavis accused me of something she witnessed this p.m.. I would like to have you tell me what went on. Go to your room and think about it for quarterutes. While you're thinking, reserve in mind how much we merit honesty in our family."
This will give Greg a contingency to think things over. He can dig a bigger hole for himself, or he can be credible and face the consequences. If he tells you the truth, compliment him for his honesty. If he chooses to lie, even after thinking about it, then you have to double his punishment. He has now both lied and thrown stones at something, and there are consequences for both.
However he responds, have a talk with him when things have quieted down. Talk about why he may have done it. Was he mad, jealous, alternatively sensibility insecure? Tell him that such feelings are customary, but they don't plea deeding badly. This will take time,
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, as he won't talk until he knows he can trust you not to be furious with him.
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