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"When you change the way you look at things, things change."
Do not get frustrated as you start this process because for the first while as you start to become aware of your thoughts and make an effort to change them, you will still have negative or unserving thoughts. Simply acknowledge the thought - Thank you - choose to let it go. Do not dwell on it and do not resist it. Soon you will be catching yourself faster when you do slip into negative thinking and you will be able to replace the negative thought with a more empowering one.
The second step in supporting yourself through change is to start approving and loving your self. I am not referring to a conceit filled, navel gazing exercise but rather having a genuine healthy respect for self.
Self-criticism is deadly to your progress. One question you can ask, "If I treated my friends like I treat myself internally, would they still be my friends?"
Be kind to yourself as you start to implement changes. Reward yourself in small ways that let your subconscious know that you are going forward and making progress. Most people do not love themselves enough and therefore have a hard time loving and accepting others for who they are.
Making a daily entry in your journal, that lets you see what you have done well, is a great way to support yourself. At the end of each day, take a few minutes to write out 5 things you did favorably. It can be as small as giving someone a genuine compliment and making their day to having presented your new business opportunity to 4 people. Acknowledge the small things you accomplished to get you closer to your desired intention.
The third step in supporting yourself through change is to do some release work around the negative emotions you are holding on to. This step is vital to your success. Letting go and releasing old hurts, anger, buried resentment of another's good [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], grief, guilt, sadness, and disappointments will not only make you feel so much lighter and more energetic but you will also be able to go forward so much more effectively and quickly.
"The greatest revolution of our generation is the discovery that human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives." William James
Many articles and books have been dedicated solely to doing release work around these powerfully negative emotions. The strategy.ies that will work best for you will depend on what you are holding on to and how intense that pain is. There is a time and a place for working with professionals on these issues. Having said that, the average person [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], can learn one or two strategies that they can easily implement by themselves and be served well, overall.
I personally enjoy the work of Dr. Larry Nims and his practical strategies. You can check this out for yourself on the Web.
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you're ready to start living your life by design rather than by default, here are four essential steps to change management that will support you along the way.
The first step in supporting yourself through change is to spend some time quietly examining your thoughts and beliefs. Identify the main problem or two in your life, and ask yourself, "What beliefs am I currently holding onto that are creating this in my life? Are these beliefs still true for me now?"
Your past thoughts and beliefs have created your present circumstances. So what you choose to think and therefore believe now, will create your next week, your next month, your next year and so on. Unless you examine your thoughts, you may be holding on to something subconsciously [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that you internalized as a young child, and yet it no longer serves you.
Are you beginning to see that only you can think for yourself, no matter how much control is currently being imposed upon you? In other words, no one else is inside your head. Therefore choose to control your own thoughts by becoming aware of them.
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